Introduction:
I almost skipped over this one. I paused and thought, “Meh, not worth resharing.” But like so many of these posts, it eerily reflects my current season of life. Who knew I’d be moving again? (Okay… I kinda did.)
I was so happy to keep our little butts in Texas, but in the back of my mind, I knew that long drive up North would start wearing on my husband—and eventually, “they” would want him closer. We held out as long as we could, but here we are… moving up North.
And here’s the kicker: this move is harder. Not because I’m going farther, but because this time, I’m truly doing it alone. No relocation team, no extra support. Just little ol’ me juggling every last detail, every box, every goodbye.
I know my friends aren’t going anywhere, but I miss them already. The emotional weight of this one hits differently—not because of distance, but because of the silence on the other end.
I’ll probably write a little update soon, in case anyone cares for the cheesy dip on what’s going on with us. But for now, I’ll just say—we’re okay. Just in the middle of a big life shuffle. Slightly scattered. Semi-homeless. Only kind of kidding.
—Skelly
A Journey of Faith and New Beginnings
I felt it in my bones—a great movement, a shift was coming. Not in the way many might have predicted, but something deeper, something divine, was stirring for all of us. I knew in my heart that God had something beautiful in store.
But fear had its grip on us, standing between where we were and where God was calling us to be. It wasn’t my fear—it was my husband’s. The endless “what ifs” whispered doubts into his heart, binding him to the safety of old habits and familiar rhythms. They gave the illusion of comfort while quietly holding him back from the leap of faith we both needed to take.
It reminds me of Sleeping Beauty. Blessed with extraordinary gifts, she was poised to fulfill her destiny when a curse sent her into a deep, enchanted sleep—not dead, but not truly alive either. Only true love’s kiss broke the spell, awakening her to the life she was meant to live. In a way, that’s our story. Fear had lulled us into a season of waiting, but now it feels as though His love, like a kiss of grace, is waking us up. It’s a complicated journey, yes, but isn’t that the beauty of a story crafted by the Creator?
Faith During Change
New opportunities are unfolding, and I’m giving God all the credit. Life can leave you second-guessing, but something remarkable happens when you fully submit to Him. When you trust His guidance, praise Him in every moment, and shift your mindset away from labeling events as simply “good” or “bad,” you begin to see things in a different light.
Forgiveness becomes less of a burden and more of a reflection of grace in action. Reconciliation feels like an invitation, not a demand. Everything around us starts to shift, aligning in ways only He can orchestrate.
The Hard Roads That Led Us Here
Working hard has never been an issue for my family. My husband and I have always gone to great lengths to provide for our children. We’ve sacrificed comfort and familiarity to climb the ranks of a company we believed would bring financial freedom and opportunities for growth. In many ways, it was an incredible journey—the places we called home, the friends who became family, the memories made across the country. It was nothing short of extraordinary.
But there was a shadow to this adventure. Being outsiders everywhere we went became a painful reality. Watching my children struggle to find support in new schools broke my heart. For me, the isolation was sometimes more than lonely but bearable. Seeing my husband grow distant and seemingly turn against me, however, was devastating.
Eventually, we realized the machine wasn’t working—not for our marriage, our kids, or our family as a whole. Through prayer and reflection, God led us to Texas. We made a decision: unless something truly enriching came along for our family and marriage, we wouldn’t uproot our lives again.
God Stepped In
It was a close call. Another opportunity almost pulled us away, and I wrestled with it in prayer. Each time, I felt God calling me to stay. I told my husband, “I’m leaning on God to guide us, and if I feel we need to stay—even if they ask you to go—we’re staying.” That conversation was hard, but it became a turning point.
The very next day, God stepped in. He made it clear in a way only He could, and everything changed.
New Beginnings
Without any prompting or pushing, new opportunities were laid out before us. My husband started with his new group, and my son began working at a company in an entirely new field—one that suits him perfectly. I couldn’t be prouder of both of them.
As for me, I’m still teaching and writing, assisting G with her online schooling, and subbing at a private school. G is thriving! She’s earning straight A’s, taking high school classes in middle school, and preparing to start driver’s ed. I can hardly believe how quickly she’s growing up. Trist, too, is thriving in his new role.
Jason is finally being challenged in ways that excite him and bring him joy. The best part? We’re staying here, living this life together as a family. That’s always been the ultimate goal, and we’re so thankful.
Gratitude in the Journey
I believe the rocky roads make the smooth ones even sweeter. Experiencing both struggles and triumphs teaches us to appreciate the journey. I also believe in the extraordinary power of a wife’s prayer and a mother’s praying heart. When those prayers come from a place of genuine faith, they hold incredible strength. Through Jesus, those prayers can truly move mountains.
God is so good.
SK-
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